One of the many things I do as a bachelor who has earned a lot of money through playing with stocks, is to go out and party at places.
I am no history genius so I have no idea when partying and clubbing started. But I do know that clubs and party hubs are not just places for fun and dancing, not just for music and body-bumping, not just about alcohol and head banging, but also a place where you could actually find someone you could make a genuine connection with; someone you could spend your lifetime with.
My friends and I have different reasons for going to clubs and parties. One just wants to lose it and get drunk and go wild on the dance floor. The others want to get rid of the stress from work and feel young and carefree every once in a while. Then, there are a few of my friends, me included, who go out in clubs to search for someone to love.
Some people think having a relationship with someone you met at a bar or a club could only mean that the relationship would not last. I thought that one too so I never really took the dating thing seriously whenever it was with someone I met while clubbing.
People think that just because someone is rich, love comes easily. It’s exactly just as hard for others, too. I mean, it gets complicated because of the fact that someone you fall for might just be after your money. While that would be fun and acceptable at a certain age, it drains you a little and makes you sad as you age by, because nobody sees you for who you are, but only for the money you have.
Of course, this is not a generalization of girls. Nor is this a judgement call. It is just how things have been for me. It’s not even entirely the woman’s fault why we do not work out.
All I want is someone to love but because of how busy I could be, my real partners tend to give up on it because of the fact that I spend more time earning than actually investing on our relationship. On the other hand, those who are not really in love and are just with me for the money, tend to steal from me or cheat on me.
It’s really sad how my love life has been but it does not mean I regret the life I live. I earn money, I can travel whenever and wherever I want, I can part if I want to, and have no obligation outside myself, my work and my parents.
I also know that someday I will be able to find the perfect woman for me.
But for now, I will continue to party and live my life because I can.